In Islam, the upbringing of children is considered a great responsibility. According to the Qur’an, children are not only a source of joy but also a trust and a test from Allah. Proper upbringing leads to righteous individuals and a strong society.
📖 Children Are a Trust from Allah
“Your wealth and your children are only a trial.”
(Surah At-Taghabun 64:15)
This verse shows that:
- Children are an amanah (trust) from Allah
- Parents will be accountable for how they raise them
🌟 Core Qur’anic Principles of Child Upbringing
1️⃣ Teaching Faith and Monotheism (Tawheed)
“O my son, do not associate anything with Allah. Indeed, shirk is a great injustice.”
(Surah Luqman 31:13)
✔️ The first lesson for children should be:
- Belief in Allah
- Understanding Tawheed
- Building a strong foundation of faith
2️⃣ Establishing Prayer
“O my son, establish prayer.”
(Surah Luqman 31:17)
- Prayer strengthens character
- It protects children from immoral behavior
3️⃣ Moral and Ethical Training
“Do not turn your cheek away from people in pride, and do not walk arrogantly on the earth.”
(Surah Luqman 31:18)
✔️ Children should be taught:
- Humility
- Respect
- Good manners and gentle speech
4️⃣ Encouraging Good and Forbidding Evil
“Enjoin what is right and forbid what is wrong.”
(Surah Luqman 31:17)
- Children must learn the difference between right and wrong
- Guiding them away from evil is a parental duty
5️⃣ Teaching Patience and Perseverance
“And be patient over what befalls you.”
(Surah Luqman 31:17)
✔️ Parents should teach:
- Patience during hardships
- Reliance on Allah
- Emotional strength
📌 Important Guidance for Parents
- Lead by personal example
- Make du‘a a part of upbringing
- Raise children with love, kindness, and wisdom
“My Lord, grant me [offspring] from among the righteous.”
(Surah As-Saffat 37:100)
🤲 Conclusion
According to the Qur’an, true child upbringing is based on faith, prayer, good character, and patience.
✔️ Righteous upbringing leads to success in this life and the Hereafter
✔️ Neglecting this responsibility results in loss
✔️ Parents play a vital role in shaping future generations
These Qur’anic principles form the foundation of a righteous and balanced society.
